Happy Turkey Day!
Tis the season for giving thanks, for appreciating all we have, and all we hope to have in the coming year. For some, this may be a tall order…
As I look back over the year, I see life has unfolded in ways I never could have imagined a year ago. I definitely tried to make things turn out the way I thought they should by setting goals and planning; but life had other plans for me, which are ultimately better than they would have been had I struggled and stressed trying to do things my way. Sometimes you don’t know what you don’t know…
There are master goal setters out there making big bucks teaching people how to set and reach goals. This has never worked for me, and I’ve had a pretty good life. I most enjoyed life when I gave up the need to be in control and surrendered to the greater good life had in store for me.
I set a goal to retire from AT&T several years ago, but after 24 years it became clear that my heart was telling me to leave for my peace and happiness. I’m sure glad I listened, because I have enjoyed every second of the freedom I’ve had being self-employed the past 14 years.
I was taught, probably like you were, to set goals and stay focused on them until they were achieved. It sounds logical, but I found I needed to leave room for those diversions that ended up being better than the goal I thought I wanted.
This Thanksgiving I’m giving thanks for the willingness to live moment-to-moment, give up the need to control my destiny, surrender to the flow, and enjoy the ride. Try it! Next year you may have even more to be thankful for!










